In love .... a way of disconnecting from reality ... living into a parallel worldby the well known romanian author Adrian Dumitru
In love .... a way of disconnecting from reality ... living into a parallel worldby the well known romanian author Adrian Dumitru
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It really sounds as a weird illusory scenario ... but maybe it's not.
Being in love ... it's amazing.
Not being in love ... and watching a couple enjoying being together ... totally ignoring the world which surrounds them ... we somehow find the scenario... ridiculous.
And ... i dare to say ... maybe it's not.
I start to think deeper ... why while being into a love story ... we basically start to live into a parallel world ... and i would like to know if it is good or not.
But ... again ... i have contradictory ideas .... balancing between believing it's good ... but also not good.
I smile .... remembering about such episodes from my life.
I ... actually ... have moments when i laugh remembering about those times.
Today ... somehow i feel that being in love it is actually a way of disconnecting from reality... and living in a totally differently world.
For many might look ... toxic.
Even for one of the partners ... might look .... unhealthy, that they totally ignore the world they are living in.
So ... into one point ... even if all is actually amazing into that parallel world .... both partners reconnect again to the world they come from.
And they do it ... so often ... that reality of this world we are living in ... becomes more and more powerful as influence.
One day ... it starts dominating again ... both partners and ... the intensity of the love story becomes weaker and weaker ... till it totally fades.
They don't even ... realise it ... until it's all too late.
So ... they ask themselves ... what the hell is going on .... cause the magic has gone?!
Well ... i personally trend to believe that the partner which was afraid of totally disconnecting from the real world ... ruined all.
Cause ... trying all the time ... to remind that it's not healthy ... first of all mentally ... to live just into their world created by the story ... became into the end the key factor which is not allowing them to remain connected to the magic.
Not believing that love is all ... and they don't really need anything else... all is ruined.
So .... magic just disappeared.
Influences of the real world ... become dominant again ... and ...
All becomes .... normal ...
The beauty of the love story ... fades so, so much ... soon we realise .... It all became just a beautiful memory ... and
nothing else.
But why?!
Why?!
Why?!
... simple.
Yes ... very simple.
We did not believed into the magic of life, being afraid to disconnect from the dogmatic reality.
Universe sent us into the love story ... but ... we could not remain only into that parallel reality.
And ....
Well ... maybe we just don't clearly understand such concepts ... and when we maybe understand it .... it's too late.
... cause all it's lost.
And .... all was related to the fear ... of being happy ... in continuous form ... in that amazing love story.
So ...
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